Bipolar and stress

Many people with bipolar say stressful life events, such as bereavement, job loss or money worries, can trigger bipolar symptoms. On this page, we answer common questions about the link between stress and bipolar, and share practical ways to manage stress and lower the risk of relapse.

The effect of stress

When you react to stress, your brain sends out chemical signals - including a stress hormone called cortisol - to tell your body to create more oxygen and energy so you can deal with the danger.

Your heartbeat, breathing rate and blood pressure go up, and you get a surge of sugar and fat into your bloodstream. You are more alert, and your muscles get tense.

Short-term stress isn’t usually harmful. Long-term stress can negatively affect both your physical and mental health.

Two types of stress

Short-term stress

Short-term stress can be caused by things like a car speeding towards you, an argument with a loved one, public speaking or a driving test.

Once the moment or event has passed, your brain and body feel safe again and trigger what’s called a ‘rest and digest’ response to help you relax back to your usual levels of alertness.

Long-term stress

Long-term stress can happen if lots of short-term stress events keep happening or if you have ongoing worries, such as unmanageable debt, if you’re grieving, you have constant deadlines, you feel your job isn’t secure, or you’re juggling childcare.

Your brain and body don’t get chance to recover, so they’re on high alert for long periods of time.

Your personal reaction to stress

Everyone has their own personal level of stress reaction to everyday issues, such as traffic jams, parents’ evenings, job interviews, family rows, sudden noise, the dentist, physical pain or a first date.

Factors that can affect your personal stress response include:

Past life experiences

Stronger stress reactions are sometimes due to traumatic events, such as childhood neglect or abuse, surviving a car crash, serving in the military or working for the emergency services. Childhood abuse has been cited as a risk factor for developing bipolar by some research.

Coping techniques

How you deal with feeling stressed can also affect your mood and risk of an episode. For example, if you turn to alcohol, comfort eating or smoking, you may find stress harder to manage – partly because these lifestyle factors affect your sleep, and when you don’t have enough quality sleep you’re more likely to have a more intense stress response to smaller stress triggers.

Your biological sex

Emerging science shows significant differences between the ways male and female brains react to stress. More research is needed, but we do know that female hormone changes, such as before a period or during perimenopause, can also lead to increased levels of anxiety and stress.

FAQs about stress and bipolar

  • All sorts of stressful situations can affect bipolar, but the picture is complex because many people say that they were dealing with more than one stressful situation before an episode.

    More research is needed to better understand how stress can affect bipolar, but some studies suggest people with bipolar may:

    • have a more intense response to stress due to differences in brain development that may lead to changes in the way the body produces and responds to the stress hormone cortisol
    • find it harder to deal with change and disruption – many life events that cause stress are linked with significant change, such as bereavement, moving house or a relationship break-up
    • find it harder to switch back into ‘rest and digest’ mode after a stressful event when body and mind return to a more relaxed state
    • experience low mood in between mood episodes that doesn’t meet a mood disorder episode level, but that can make pessimistic thought processes more likely, including thinking constantly about negative things, which in turn creates a feeling of threat and creates stress
  • It’s not yet fully understood why having bipolar can mean you’re more likely to get stressed, but research shows that some people living with bipolar:

    • have unhelpful negative thoughts and ruminations (where you repeatedly think the same thoughts over and over again) during periods of depression and mania
    • get symptoms of paranoia and delusions during mania which both cause extreme stress
    • are more at risk of behaving in ways that can negatively affect relationships, or financial and job security
    • may worry about when another episode might happen.
    • may feel concerned about stigma and whether to tell colleagues, new friends or partners about their diagnosis
    • are more likely to interpret events as stressful, that people without a mood disorder might not view in the same way
    • are more likely to have a negative outlook than a positive one – this is especially likely if you also have an anxiety disorder
  • Extremely challenging life events like bereavement, trauma and divorce are known triggers in both manic and depressive episodes.

    A Bipolar UK survey of over 2000 people found that one in five people said the stress linked to positive events – such as going on holiday, meeting a new partner, getting married, or being promoted at work – had also triggered a mood episode.

  • Negative triggers include divorce, bereavement, work stress, money worries, debt, physical health issues, loneliness, experiencing discrimination, change, doing exams, moving home, physical illness and leaving a job.

    Severe negative life events are associated with an increased risk of relapse and a longer recovery. They are more associated with depression than mania.

    The association of life events with a mood episode appears to be stronger in people who have bipolar type 1, according to one piece of research.

    Positive triggers include getting a promotion at work, getting married, starting a new relationship or going on holiday, had been major triggers.

    Many people experience a stress response during events or activities they also say are pleasurable – such as sexual activity, a rollercoaster ride or a scary film.

    Some studies show positive life events are more likely to be associated with mania than depression, though others suggest mania and depression can both be triggered.

  • You may hear some people talking about stress-induced bipolar disorder.

    Some research shows that stressful events may contribute to brain changes that increase the chance of developing bipolar disorder.

    And stress is one of the risk factors for a first episode.

    However, stress alone does not cause bipolar. It runs in families, so there is a genetic risk factor too.

  • The signs of stress in someone with bipolar are the same as in people without bipolar. However, someone with bipolar may have a stronger reaction, or view more things as threats that other people might not see in the same way.

    Symptoms of stress to look out for include things that can also signal the move into a mood episode – so keeping an eye on your stress levels and symptoms using the Bipolar UK Mood Tracker app is a helpful way to notice any early warning signs.

    Psychological symptoms of stress

    • Irritable, angry, tearful
    • Anxious, worried, racing thoughts or feeling panic
    • Sad, hopeless, or scared
    • Overwhelmed, struggling to make decisions

    Physical symptoms of stress

    • Aches and pains including tension headaches
    • Chest pain or a racing heart
    • Exhaustion or trouble sleeping.
    • Dizzy, sick, or faint
    • Muscle tension or jaw clenching.
    • Stomach or digestive problems.
    • Trouble having sex
    • More colds due to a weakened immune system
    • Stress rashes, when you get red raised bumps called hives – more common in females

    Behaviour changes of stress

    • Change in how much you see people
    • Turning to alcohol, smoking or drugs – or using them more
    • Turning to gambling or gambling more
    • Changes in your appetite – over or under eating
    • More compulsive sex, shopping or internet browsing
  • Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is a mental health problem that some people develop after experiencing or witnessing a life-threatening or deeply distressing event.

    While it’s normal to feel upset or anxious after trauma, PTSD is diagnosed when these feelings and symptoms last for more than a month and interfere with daily life.

    Some research suggests as many as one in two people who live with bipolar also have PTSD.

    People who live with both conditions may have a greater frequency of rapid mood cycling, a poorer quality of life, find it harder to function socially and at work, and be more likely to have more suicide attempts.

    In most cases, symptoms of PTSD start within a month of a traumatic event, although some people experience a delay of months or even years.

    Some people have times when symptoms are better or worse, while others have severe symptoms all the time.

    Common symptoms of PTSD include:

    • Re-experiencing the event – without trying to, you get vivid flashbacks, nightmares, images and sensations of fear or panic.
    • Avoidance or emotional numbing – where you do all you can to stop being reminded about the event, even withdrawing from social life or numbing all your emotions to try not to feel anything at all.
    • Hyperarousal – feeling on edge all the time, where you see threats all around you and may be easily startled. This is a heightened level of stress that can mean you feel anxious, angry, lose sleep and find it hard to focus.

    If you are experiencing any of these symptoms, it’s important to tell your healthcare team so you can get the support you need.

Top tips to manage stress in bipolar

Learning to manage stress can help to reduce the risk of a bipolar mood episode. The good news is that many of the key self-management techniques for people with bipolar are also proven to reduce stress.

Get 5 key protective factors in place

Getting into a routine with as many protective factors in place as possible can help you reduce the impact of stress on your mood.

  1. Take your medicationas prescribed
  2. Get support – from your loved ones and healthcare team – and remember that we are always here for you
  3. Get good quality sleep
  4. Eat well
  5. Move regularly

Plan ahead to prevent bipolar stress overload

You can help to reduce the pressure of upcoming events by planning ahead.

Plan for fewer things at once

If you know big changes in your routine are coming up – you’re planning a big holiday, taking exams, getting married or starting a new job, for example – try to avoid planning in other big events at the same time.

Increase your bipolar protective factors

When big changes are planned, such as moving house or becoming a parent, you can reduce the effect of the stress by increasing your protective factors in advance.

  • prioritise your sleep, healthy eating and exercise
  • say no to commitments and invitations if you need to
  • book in a medication review with your GP or psychiatrist

Learn to recognise your stress signs

Even with all your protective factors and plans in place, you might get an unexpected stressful situation to deal with – whether that’s a relationship breakdown, a health issue or a challenging project at work.

Learning to recognise your own stress symptoms means you can take action quickly to help reduce the risk of relapse. Downloading and using our free Mood Tracker app daily can help you understand your own patterns.

Use these proven stress-busters

1. Go for a brisk walk

Exercise reduces stress hormones and releases feelgood chemicals called endorphins. Even 10-minute bursts throughout the day make a difference.

2. Try belly breathing

Sometimes called diaphragmatic breathing, deep breathing activates your relaxation response. Sit in a chair, lean forward, and place your elbows on your knees. Breathe naturally. This position forces you to breathe deeply, as if you are inflating a balloon inside your belly

3. Use visualisation

Also known as guided imagery, this exercise is used widely for relaxation. Get comfortable. Close your eyes. Visualise a place, such as a garden or beach, where you feel at peace. Look around slowly. Notice every detail. Think about what you can see, feel, hear, touch and smell. Repeat to yourself, ‘I am relaxed.’ Spend a few minutes enjoying the feeling of deep relaxation. Open your eyes when you are ready.

4. Find three good things each day

At least once a week, write down three positive things. They can be small things like someone making you tea in your favourite mug, having a cuddle with your pet, seeing a plant bloom on your windowsill, or getting a smile from someone in a shop. Or it could be something bigger, like finishing a project at work.

5. Treat yourself to a massage

There is some evidence that massage can help to switch off the stress response. If your budget doesn’t stretch to a massage with a practitioner, try using your fingertips to massage your scalp and feet in the shower or bath. Or roll a tennis ball underneath your back and shoulders on the floor.

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